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Shadow Work

Face it, feel it, free it.

Shadow Work is the practice of turning toward the hidden parts of yourself—the feelings, traits, memories, or instincts you were told were “too much,” “not enough,” or “unacceptable.” It’s not about fixing what’s broken. It’s about reclaiming what’s been buried.


In this work, we don't shame the anger, bypass the fear, or silence the grief. We sit with them. We listen. We let them speak. Because healing doesn’t happen through denial—it happens through radical acceptance.

History

The term “shadow” was coined by Swiss psychiatrist Carl Jung, who described it as the unconscious part of our psyche that holds repressed aspects of ourselves—often formed in childhood or early life. These are not necessarily bad or dark—they're simply parts that were exiled in order to stay loved, accepted, or safe.


Over time, the shadow builds up as emotional residue: self-sabotage, projection, chronic guilt, perfectionism, or emotional numbness. Jung believed that integrating the shadow was essential to becoming whole—what he called “individuation.” Today, shadow work has evolved into a core part of depth psychology, inner child healing, and somatic integration practices.

How Does It Work?

In a shadow work session, we create a safe space to explore what’s been pushed underground—often through guided inquiry, visualizations, inner child dialogue, journaling, and somatic awareness.


We don’t chase the shadow. We invite it gently. We track emotional triggers, repetitive patterns, and places where your life feels blocked. We give voice to the parts of you that were never allowed to speak: the angry child, the shamed teenager, the overwhelmed adult. And we do this without judgment—only deep witnessing.

This isn’t about indulging negativity. It’s about facing your inner terrain honestly, so you can stop leaking energy and start standing in your full power.

This is for You, When…

  • When you keep sabotaging the things you say you want

  • When you're triggered by others but can't see why

  • When you feel split one part of you wants it, the other resists it

  • When old wounds replay in new relationships

  • When you over give, overachieve, or over adapt to feel worthy

  • When guilt, shame, or self hate sit quietly in the background

  • When you can’t connect with your joy or creativity anymore

  • When you're scared to be seen, but also scared to be invisible

  • When you're constantly comparing yourself to others

  • When anger leaks out in ways you can’t control

  • When you feel numb, tired, or like you're living half a life

Not for You, If…

  • You’re in acute psychological crisis and not under medical supervision

  • You’re unwilling to look at uncomfortable truths with support

  • You want a quick fix or spiritual bypass to avoid doing the deeper work

  • You're not ready to feel what was once suppressed

Please Note

Shadow Work is not a replacement for clinical psychotherapy or psychiatric care. However, it works beautifully alongside therapy, bodywork, trauma healing, and spiritual practices. This process is especially helpful for seekers, creatives, and those who feel emotionally stuck or fragmented—people who sense there’s more to them, but don’t know how to access it.

Shadow Work is not about reliving your past. It's about reclaiming the parts of you that got left behind

Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.

— Carl Jung
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Shadow Work

Face it, feel it, free it.

Shadow Work is the practice of turning toward the hidden parts of yourself—the feelings, traits, memories, or instincts you were told were “too much,” “not enough,” or “unacceptable.” It’s not about fixing what’s broken. It’s about reclaiming what’s been buried.


In this work, we don't shame the anger, bypass the fear, or silence the grief. We sit with them. We listen. We let them speak. Because healing doesn’t happen through denial—it happens through radical acceptance.

History

The term “shadow” was coined by Swiss psychiatrist Carl Jung, who described it as the unconscious part of our psyche that holds repressed aspects of ourselves—often formed in childhood or early life. These are not necessarily bad or dark—they're simply parts that were exiled in order to stay loved, accepted, or safe.


Over time, the shadow builds up as emotional residue: self-sabotage, projection, chronic guilt, perfectionism, or emotional numbness. Jung believed that integrating the shadow was essential to becoming whole—what he called “individuation.” Today, shadow work has evolved into a core part of depth psychology, inner child healing, and somatic integration practices.

How Does It Work?

In a shadow work session, we create a safe space to explore what’s been pushed underground—often through guided inquiry, visualizations, inner child dialogue, journaling, and somatic awareness.


We don’t chase the shadow. We invite it gently. We track emotional triggers, repetitive patterns, and places where your life feels blocked. We give voice to the parts of you that were never allowed to speak: the angry child, the shamed teenager, the overwhelmed adult. And we do this without judgment—only deep witnessing.

This isn’t about indulging negativity. It’s about facing your inner terrain honestly, so you can stop leaking energy and start standing in your full power.

This is for You, When…

  • When you keep sabotaging the things you say you want

  • When you're triggered by others but can't see why

  • When you feel split one part of you wants it, the other resists it

  • When old wounds replay in new relationships

  • When you over give, overachieve, or over adapt to feel worthy

  • When guilt, shame, or self hate sit quietly in the background

  • When you can’t connect with your joy or creativity anymore

  • When you're scared to be seen, but also scared to be invisible

  • When you're constantly comparing yourself to others

  • When anger leaks out in ways you can’t control

  • When you feel numb, tired, or like you're living half a life

Not for You, If…

  • You’re in acute psychological crisis and not under medical supervision

  • You’re unwilling to look at uncomfortable truths with support

  • You want a quick fix or spiritual bypass to avoid doing the deeper work

  • You're not ready to feel what was once suppressed

Please Note

Shadow Work is not a replacement for clinical psychotherapy or psychiatric care. However, it works beautifully alongside therapy, bodywork, trauma healing, and spiritual practices. This process is especially helpful for seekers, creatives, and those who feel emotionally stuck or fragmented—people who sense there’s more to them, but don’t know how to access it.

Shadow Work is not about reliving your past. It's about reclaiming the parts of you that got left behind

Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.

— Carl Jung
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